Wednesday, February 14, 2024

She's back, I think


After a gap of around 6 weeks Z called on me this afternoon. We went to the Buranda coffee lounge for lunch. After lunch she came up and lay down beside me in bed, which is our usual custom. So that was the basics of restoring our relationship.

Both at the cafe and in bed, however, she spent almost the whole time criticizing me, which was quite unpleasant. I put up with it in the hope that she will be more civil in future. We were together for about 2 hours of the afternoon but she left wihout making any arrangements for us to meet again. But I imagine I will see her again some time soon

I deeply regret upsetting her as I do love her



2 comments:

  1. Here is an interesting video that came out yesterday, a psychologist's thoughts on love and marriage: https://shorturl.at/bnI49

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  2. It is a normal view among social psychologists that good relationships are essentially a trade --"transactional"

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